STDs have been around as long as humans have been...cough...interacting. The only shame in having an STD is not knowing the facts about what you have and not seeking care for your health.

Knowing what you have, if anything, helps you make important decisions about your health. People who know their status can get life-saving treatment and better protect themselves and their sexual partners. Grandma doesn't need to know.

If you are negative you need to know how to stay that way.